Monday, June 30, 2008

Zachary's Room

I sort of finished Zachy's bedroom. It looks much better....



The bed The pool table Under the bed- I need to organize

The dresser- notice the excess of Webkinz and Pez dispensers. I had to buy an extra set of sheets. As the bed is difficult to make, I am only using a fitted sheet and blanket, so the top sheet was transformed into a valance curtain and then I made a "hiding spot" curtain for the under bed area. I put his bookshelf behind the door. It looks nicer with the furniture moved around. Yes, his bed covers the window and is almost sitting on top of the air register, but his room is so tiny and awkward, there is just no way to have it perfect. I just bought this poster (eBay- hello) for his wall. Of course, I had to buy a General Greivous action figure (doll?) also.

For the uneducated, this is Darth Vader and Boba Fett. Boba Fett is cool because he has a jet pack and awesome weapons. And Darth, well, he is just a bad ass. Should I be concerned about my son's adoration of the Dark Side?

Sunday, June 29, 2008

:0(

Dear XXXX,
It has been a while since I actually talked to you. Weirdly enough, I don't miss you. I thought that I would, but I don't. Maybe the truth was there all along and I just couldn't see. You are a user and a liar. I was fooled for too many years and I believed you, supported you, defended you and protected you. When I finally started to question you and your actions, you call me names and accuse me of disloyalty.
You have turned out to be the worst kind of friend. Since the demise of our "friendship" I hear from another person that you misrepresented me for years. Perhaps to keep me from forming a relationship with that person? Perhaps. It really doesn't matter any more and I really don't even care. I am, quite honestly, relieved to be done with your baggage and drama. I didn't realize how very much you drained out of me until I got away. I can honestly say that you seem to enjoy putting yourself into the victim role. You play it well. And then use it for blackmail. You are a fraud and a phoney. Get a really big grip on reality and come live with all of us in the genuine world. Until then, and then only after you apologize, I have absolutely nothing to say to you and don't even want to look at you. I tried to apologize and asked you to set the record straight and you responded with more insults and names. I do hope that I am never this blind again in my lifetime. I thought I was too old to be so fooled.

Sincerely, Susan

Thursday, June 26, 2008

PURSES!

I have solved my purse quandary with the following purchases:


The first is a Vera Bradley Hipster in the Pink Elephant pattern, the second is a Matt & Nat Montreal Vegan bag. Both are new with tags and I scored AWESOME deals on eBay. Hooray! Now I am taking myself, the kids and a home made iced coffee to karate.
ADDITION- forgot to post the pics I picked up last night before I lost my bank card (I am a dumb ass).

Helen, age 8

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Wasted trip

We were supposed to go to the farm yesterday. Unfortunately someone else had planned the trip for my moms group and did not check to see if they are open on Monday. They are not. So we went to a little park instead and then got lunch at Pizza Hut. Helen insisted on Pizza (go figure) and actually didn't have too many problems afterward. Maybe she is outgrowing it.
Ozzy is still shedding like a beast. Helen is using this FurBuster to brush him and fur is literally all over the place. I was about to vacuum, but I guess I will wait. There is fur everywhere he has been this morning. I love my dog, but the fur has been unreal this year!
We are going Gunpowder to swim today. Will post more later.
It is later and here are some pictures.




Zachary and Helen and our lunch. I had a fakon, lettuce and tomato sammie; they had ham. Those are cherries mixed with the melon. The square thingies are the cracker chips from Lay's.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

More food shenanigans

Just read this article as linked by Jennifer over at Vegan Lunchbox. The article indicates that snack food choices are changing. It is good thing as more children are snacking on fruit, yogurt and water rather than soda and cookies. Even Cookie Monster is in on the change!

Now, what I would like to see is this. Get all that sugar, food coloring, candy and gelatin out of that yogurt. Fruit snacks and roll ups are very popular with the under 10 set, but are really glorified candy. My kids love
these, and they are fruit, but oh so difficult to find, and pricey compared to the $1 box of candy fruit snacks. Times are a changin..... that's a good thing. But don't forget we are responsible for reading labels and making decisions, not the guys who make money peddling snacks.

First Communion Cards

Here are the cards I finally finished for Helen's first Communion (back in May- hey, I'm slack). I cannot get the hang of posting images. They are never where I want them in the layout. Here are the details:









Image-Elegant Cross by Rubber Stampede; Ink- Versamark, Emboss powder- Stampendous White Pearls; Scallop circle- Nestablilites; Emboss background- Cuttlebug filigree; Ribbon- organza by Morex Corp

I am sending them out with the portraits I had taken a while back- I would post one but I deleted the smiles by wire email, I am guessing.
The writing on the inside was done with Word and printed. It reads:
And Jesus said unto them, "I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that beleiveth in me shall never thirst." John 6:15

My awesome sister sent me the link for the portraits!

I LOVE the laughing one so much. It looks like she sees angels.

Big Boy Bed




Zachary finally has a big boy bed. About time....at 5 years, 3 months and 3 days, he is 49 pounds and about 48 inches tall. His poor little feet were sticking off the bottom of the mattress (of course, his dad hangs off our bed, too, but that is another problem). Here he is showing off his new bed. And what appears to be a very large bullet. Have I mentioned he is into weapons (his fave color is camouflage)? I still need to arrange the furniture and decorate, but Las Vegas was not built in a day....

I never say too much about my son- I really wonder what he is going to be when he grows up. My thoughts are Naval Academy, followed by Marine Corps and some sort of FBI/Secret Ops....... Or a Ninja Baseball Player Rock Star Golfer. Could go either way.

UPDATE- there are now a million X's scratched all over the wall and ceiling courtesy of using the smaller bullet (see attached) as a "pencil" ARRRG. I know what I am doing tomorrow.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Food is still pissing me off

OK, so milk price are rising due to the cost of grain for feed, corn prices are up because of fuel demands, etc., poor soil is blamed for flooding..... It all goes back to the government and big business controlling the world's food. Get a clue- feed the cattle GRASS! Feed the grain and corn to people. Conserve the fuel we have and utilize our own resources. The fact that farmers are getting top dollar for soy and corn and growing little else is going to kill us. These foods are finding their way into every processed food in the store. So is milk. Don't believe it, go read some labels. There are chemicals in food that are so far removed from corn that you cannot even call it corn, yet it is there. You absolutely cannot avoid it. Soy is almost as bad, and dairy is right behind it. Why? you ask. Well, it all goes back to the government. After WW2 it was decided that it would be a good idea to pay farmers for certain crops (soy, corn). SO the very lessons I learned back in the 4th grade about soil conservation and crop rotation were forgotten. In fact, many "new" farmers don't even understand how to do it. You grow certain crops on certain fields and ROTATE them. You put cows out to pasture. Any five year old knows that. They eat grass, they have babies, they make milk. Which gets me off on another tangent. WHO decided that all this milk was required? Oh, that would be the National Dairy Council. So, really we are ruining our land and food supply to feed the wrong food to an animal that we put on a cement lot and artificially impregnate so it will continue to make milk for us humans instead of the calf it births, which is subsequently taken from her and fed by a bottle until it is sold for food or can make its own milk, continuing the bizarro world cycle we have created. Now a substitute a human female into that scenario and see how very odd it is. We are the only species that continues to drink/eat milk after early childhood AND we take that from another species. Sounds f'd up when you think about it.
Here is my fix- stop buying processed foods. Buy as much locally grown food as you can. Stop consuming dairy, be picky about how your meat lived and died. Farmers- stop looking for the fast buck. Think in the long term. Man has cultivated crops for centuries. It is what domesticated us (David says it was beer, but man still had to grow grain and hops). For centuries it has been known that you cannot keep growing the same thing over and over. You must grow crops seasonally and mix it up. Don't put all your soy beans in one basket. This "new" method of farming has only been around since the 1940's. See what it has already done. It hasn't even been one hundred years. The damage can be repaired, but it will require change. Everyone has complained that organic costs more, grass fed beef costs more (which actually the cost is reflective of the SLAUGHTER, not the growing, fyi), yadda yadda. But I spent $72 at the grocery store this afternoon. What did I get? My "splurge" was some deli ham. The rest- fruit, bread, veggies. It didn't go far. I plan to frequent the farmer's markets in the coming weeks and I will not be buying a lot of things that I normally buy. I am guilty as the next gal with the dairy life without cheese isn't the same.
I remember as a child we didn't drink milk and juice constantly. We lived on water and, of course, iced tea. Meat wasn't the huge portion we think of today, and sometimes in the summer, nonexistent. We ate a lot of things that came from the garden. We ate beans and rice. My mom "put up" countless cans and jars of produce and preserves. My kids need to get over their food issues and eat what is given to them. Period. I will let you all know how it goes. It starts on Monday, dang it.

Disturbing

I heard about this on the radio this morning and then read this. I am in shock. I've been having a hard enough time with my daughter's questions lately, and then to think this was still a problem. I can see how it was an issue back in Covington, GA circa 1985. There was no AIDS, nothing better to do than either fool around with boys or get drunk down at the train trustle (or both), but in 2008? My 8 year old asked me the other day if you could have baby before you get married. Well, since the neighbor never married her baby daddy (who is currently in jail for the 3rd time in 6 years) and is now shacking up with her newest fella, I had to say, "you can, but it isn't the way you're supposed to do it." I told her how you're supposed to fall in love, then get married and have family together and asked "don't you like having a Daddy?". Then she told me that other little girls in the 'hood said they were going to have babies before they get married. What a goal. I understand if you're 25 and shit happens. I don't get PLANNING your life that way when you're 8 YEARS OLD. Do their parents know? Do they care? Both families I am talking about were the result of unplanned teen pregnancies, one got married the other did not. Maybe I need to get some new playmates for my kid. Or move. On the boy end of things I have gotten criticism from another mother that my son is not circumcised. She preaches that circumcision helps prevent STD's and AIDS. I told her that I plan to teach him to be careful where he puts it instead of whacking off his foreskin. What is wrong with teaching morality and being choosy? I am not even talking abstinence for God, I am talking about waiting until you are ready and love some one enough to share yourself. Sex is a gift, not a joke.

The Maryland Zoo





We took a trip to the zoo yesterday. The weather was awesome. You couln't ask for a better day. I only wish we had gotten there earlier, because we missed seeing this guy, Sampson . Elephants are very special around our house- Helen has quite the love affair. As a result, I know more about elephants than anyone needs to. It is great that the zoo in Baltimore has a baby elephant. A couple of years ago, Baltimore lost its elephants. They were loaned out to save money. When the public found out, they tried to "save" the elephants. But a turn of events got us a new pregnant elephant, and the baby was born March 19 (the day after Zachary's birthday and on my brother's). They got to feed a giraffe and added goat poop to our growing collection of poop pictures ( are we a gross family or what?) Enjoy some pictures, poop not included.....









Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Party invites and Thank you notes

















I made these for my great nephew's upcoming first birthday party. It is nice to be able to do something when I live so far away.

Details-
Stamps "Billy" by Pink Cat Studios


Thank You cards- Target (I added the cowboys)







Free movie, broken purse and portraits



Today we went to the free movie at the mall. We saw Firehouse Dog, which was only slightly better than I imagined. But the kids liked it, along with the gummy sharks I smuggled in with our SmartPop popcorn and SIGGs of orange KoolAid (very healthy, I know). After this I lost Zachary in American Greetings. After finding him we mosied over to Penney's to pick up his 5 year old portrait, see to the right. While I was standing there in Penney's, my purse drops to the floor. Broken strap. Third one in as many weeks. I am getting frustrated with the purse quandry. I am too picky. Everything is either too big (I really don't carry much) or too small (I do still have smallish children), leather (dead animal- no thank you) or too ugly. I cannot find anything I like. Just a canvas bag seems so bohemian or tackey, the crocheted ones are to grandmotherly, fake leather looks cheap (usually). I don't want to spend too much (I am a SAHM, remember), but I don't want something totally cheesey. SO, after trying to look in two stores with the animals, I gave up and came home. Any suggestions for a purse?

Monday, June 16, 2008

I thought Summer was supposed to be fun

David went to Germany for a week. I had to stay home. SO, here is the break down:

7 days
1 bad storm
25 hours without power
2 massive trees down in the front
13 shingles off the roof
105 degrees in the house (heat wave & no power)
3 clogged toilets
1 near drowning
2 ballgames
3 karate classes
1 sparring class
1 run away dog
11 bandaids

It always hits the fan when he isn't here. At least there was no tow truck or ER visit this time. He brought the kids prizes. I got nothing. Figures.



Helen's picture of the tree. It took up the entire front yard. It was there 5 days- long enough to ruin the grass.